Just like to wish all the dads in this world a happy fathers day. It is a day that was meant for us, a day to enjoy our kids, family and all you have worked so hard to accomplish. Today is suppose to be our day, time for us to shut down the brain, and not think about anything.
Unfortunately it does not happen that way all the time, we still deal with obstacles, that should of been avoided. Relationships have them moments, just how it is!
We all have happy moments of our favorite fathers day, the day you where made out to feel like a "king." Wow, that actually felt good, and very enjoyable. Some of us are having this type of day, and you have earned it.
Some times dads do not get the respect they need, but we are dads we get over them, we forgive and move on. We have the ability to not make things complicated if avoided-able. We have enough stress to deal with, meeting our monthly financial obligations. Not taking anything away from the mothers, many very highly successful women, who never had to rely on this type of obligation or support.
Had to certainly get that one in the opening, for the simple reason that relationship works best on the power of two. When you have that in you're relationship, it makes good sense, providing you with sound advice to each other.
Most relationship fail for them simple reasons, lack of attention, financial obligations, commitments, kids, and so many other logical or perhaps non-logical reasons. Either way it just happens, all we can do is watch. How we prepare our minds for this type of mindset, is a totally different topic.
I have always believed in these's words, "Legacy is more important then Currency." When l heard them words being used, l fell in love with that concept. Told me life is a learning curve daily, never forget that! Just how fast and complicated life has become, regardless of who or what you have.
This is suppose to be a special day, and you know it will always be, one for all us dad's, just like mothers day has been and always will be. God we ask for only one day of the year to be "Special." You know l lost my dad, and so have many of you, but we understand sweet memories will never die. My mom, is not in really good condition should of happened but she is still hanging in. With out water, foods, or artificial modifications of keeping her alive, other then her will for the last 7 days.
This article is for all of us who deal with what many of us deal with, not only on a special day, but daily. Life is what you make it to be, not a really hard concept to understand. Some of us handle obstacles, stress, emotions, feelings better then many. All you need is the correct mind set, that is what keeps me focus, like many of you also.
Hey if we stay away from a negative mind set, we will truly have what our minds thinks, we will achieve it. Steps that will happen, for one reason; we wanted them to appear! The word "think," is the best investment you will ever invest in. When you make your decisions, you have no one else too point figures at.
All the Best,
Joseph F. Botelho One Gram at a Time