Persuasion or Manipulation

February 14, 2012


Do you ever notice that for some people it seems so simple for them to have anyone they associate with to more often than not support their ideas? They appear to have no problem in turning their ideas into real action. Most of these people tend to persuade others to get the results they want. Or do they manipulate others into a situation to (or “intending to”) getting what they want?

Have you ever thought about this for any length of time?

Persuasion is an art in itself, where people position themselves to generate real value for others. You have to have a range of skills to do this, things like having personal credibility, the ability to win over other people's thought processes and beliefs, along with being able to overcome resistance. Most people without realizing it draw on these skills on a daily basis, they just don't always realize it.

Someone once said that the best way to shape the future or to develop your future is to influence it. But to shape that future, it must be done ethically, and there must be the mutual gain for those involved. It becomes manipulation when you do this for personal gain only, if you are doing things for personal gain, then you're not adding value to yourself or anyone else. Typically you are likely to even being unethical or using unethical tactics to manipulate others for personal gain. It will destroy your reputation and credibility in a very short order.

You know the old saying: do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Taking this into consideration, I believe one key factor to persuasion is to "listen to others as you would have them listen to you" This not only will improve your relationships but it will build trust with others. When people feel that they have been heard, they then feel that their opinion is being valued, and then they will become more open to considering your point of view and your ideas.

So if at times you feel that you may be manipulating others into your point of view, maybe consider sharpening your "persuasion skills" so that you can add value to others and in turn be able to take your ideas and turn them into valuable business outcomes for the benefit of everyone involved. Sometimes a little education to gain some additional knowledge can take you a long way.

Engage~Inform~Educate it will add to your credibility as well as increase the value to everyone you associate with: persuade rather than manipulate

This article was written by Corey Blackmur one our senior writers at APSense!!
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How do you define the word "LUCK"

October 6, 2011

This word is a word that is overused in many fields of life, we have all used it in one way or another. We all wish we had a little more luck in our daily lives. Some of the terms how this word is used.

He has so much luck in life.

Only if l had some luck l too could be like him.

Why can't l have in luck in my life?

We could go on and on and never really understand what it means or how it is defined. Luck to me is defined this way, and l will explain why.

Labour

Under

Correct

Knowledge

Good Luck to all who read this and you apply the above to make yourself luckier in life; only you are in control of your life.

SPELLS THE WORD L U C K

So when you bring this all own together and apply the meaning of each letter you get the correct definition of the word "LUCK".

So when you use the labor involved and obtain the correct knowledge; then you will see your LUCK increase all of a sudden. There is no such thing as luck you can control and create your luck at work, in business by having the correct knowledge to obtain the success that you deserve....................Except if your buying lottery tickets, then it's a whole new word to me also.............If someone founds the definition of that sort of LUCK, please share it with all of us.

I hope you can all apply a little luck to your day and your life just remember the definition of luck and use it to your advantage, and your luck will change cause you're in control of it.

All the Best,

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Earning Income on Line Direct result of Earning Authority!

May 20, 2011

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Common Newbies Mistakes

March 23, 2011

After reviewing the blogs and articles that l read today l decide to pick this blog to share with us all, he has some good comments posted, with 10 Tops so far his doing well. Well written Rajesh, l enjoyed it and also benefit from reading it...

Common Newbies Mistakes

Since I am writing this blog keeping in mind of all the newbies and person still not able to find the good result, today I am listing common mistakes is being made by newcomers (Even I did some) & even by old one too, who still searching for good opportunity. This is more important to write such thing at this time as internet users are increasing day by day and many newcomers are being scammed by old scammers time & again.

Very Easy Money
Every newcomer, when looking at the plans shown in most of the sites, attracts to it and starts making their own calculations & maximum person fails just because of their assumption of Very Easy Money, which is practically not there. So make your mind that nothing is easy & free and for each & everything in life you have to make efforts.

Need Everything Instant.....
Newcomers seeking everything instantly, which is practically not there. Before thinking this kind of things just compare your daily routine life & think about your learning process Vs perfection time period.

Lack of Knowledge
Main reason for failure is Lack of Knowledge. One quote in India "GURU BINA GATI NAHI" means... "NO SUCCESS WITHOUT MENTOR" in other words find a person to get help so you learn from their experience.

Starting Many Tasks Together
For making fast money, many people starting many tasks at the same time, which should be avoided as most loose their enthusiasm to complete the same.

Cleverest Person Of The World
Newcomers are thinking that they are the most clever person on the earth and making silly mistakes like by opening multiple accounts at sites as their own referrals from single IP address, which is a violation of terms.

Useless Tasks
Many people joining earning sites without even reading their terms. They only come to know their terms when they reached payout and get a reply "You violated the terms" or "Your Country is Not in our Approved List" instead of payment.

Spending Money
Some person coming with their Credit Cards and start buying Ebooks, CB Products, premium memberships or making HYIP investments, which then results in loss of money & Some are not spending even a single dime and expecting money. Need to Balance everything and find where to spend.

Spamming
A lot of person for getting results started sending unsolicited emails or start spamming their Social Network contact, which is against SPAM LAW and as a result of permanent BAN from spamming.

Regards,

Written by, Rajesh Kumar


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